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'Christmas came early…I got my dad back!'

femi_peter2By Femi Peters Jr. (Chelsea)
25th December and 1st January: two dates Joe Public knows like he knows himself. One is everybody’s second birthday with presents aplenty and the other is the ushering of a New Year and possibly New Year resolutions to draw up and adhere to.
Resolutions that get shredded before the 31st only to be drawn up again come the 48 weeks later.
Well, allow me to re-date a date. Christmas this year fell on the 10th. At least for me and the Peters household.femi_peter2
It was the date my dad was released from custody after serving eight months for merely demonstrating his constitutional right of assembly.
Back in April 1st, when I got the call that my dad was in the slammer, I was reading the Metro.
December 10th when my step mum called me, I was just about to read the, you guessed it, Metro. Now, that I think of it, I should have kept those issues as they are a defining part of my life.
I called her back and when she said, ‘hold on for daddy,’ Christmas came 15 days early. This has nothing on my first Stamford Bridge visit, meeting author Jeffrey Deaver or, allow me to be silly, landing my first girlfriend as a teenager.
This is an indescribable feel-good feeling. Finally, those sleepless nights of endlessly worrying about my dad’s health, hesitating to pick up calls from Jollof as they might bear devastating news are floored for good. I remember almost blacking out when Aameen of Amnesty International called me and kicked off by saying, ‘I’m sorry for your loss.’  I had feared the worst when all he was on about was Chelsea’s loss to Liverpool days earlier. What I endured following my dad’s incaseration is not one I would want anyone to go through as I don’t loathe anyone that much.
‘Welcome back,’ I told him and he replied, ‘thank you. It was a very exciting experience.’
I always knew where I got my names, height, pride and love of books from. Ironically, it took the violation of my dad’s human rights for me to know my wry sense of humour is genetic. No wonder I can’t correct it, despite living on an island peopled with top-drawer sense of humour. He sounded his old self and, as we spoke, I realise prison hasn’t dampened his one bit. In fact, he reminded me of the phone I bought for him but never got to send it as he was jailed the weekend before. I ended up giving the phone to my partner. How was I to know he would need it for Christmas?
It has been a hell of a year for our family and I want to thank all who were there for us, supported us and part took in demonstrations. I appreciated every one of them that took time off work and showed their support but one such demonstrator, a guy called Manneh, caught my eye. He lives in Hampshire and effortlessly attended both the UDP-UK and the Amnesty International demonstrations. Mind you, our Jollof News own Kemo Cham and others came all the way from the Midlands. But what made Manneh’s presence unique was, he not only took a day off work but that day turned out to be his daughter’s one year birthday. A very special day in his life and he chose to travel all the way to London to voice his displeasure at a travesty of justice. It touched my heart that here is a guy who is not a blood relative of mine going to all this trouble when he should have spent the day with his daughter. I would have done the opposite same were I in his shoes. It made me realise that the repulsive reputation Gambians in the Diaspora get of being haughty and not looking out for Kumba and Samba is incorrect when you haul Manneh into the mix. Manneh and all you out here who stood by me when it was really bleak, to put it mildly, I salute you all.
God bless and keep you all. You lot have restored my faith in humanity.
Readers of this site will notice my column has taken a pause. Longer than I would have wanted. The reason is my once reliable laptop has diseased up on me. For Christmas ala everybody’s second birthday, my partner was going to get me one. Well, following Friday’s events I told her to save that money as I got my present early. Funnily enough, I did an interview with Voice of America last Wednesday and stated all I wanted for Christmas was my dad back. Seems like Santa does exist. Once again, thank you all and God bless.

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+2 #5 2010-12-15 23:03
I wish the Peters family well.There is no better present than having a loved one back,particular ly, your dad.

He has showned true leadership by standing up for what he believes. It is such kind of leadership that brought an end to apartheid in South Africa.

It was wrong to send him to jail in the first place, because he was exercising his democratic rights. That is why the system that requires political parties to acquire permits from the police to hold rallies should be dismantled.

The police should have no business issueing permits to political parties,on the contrary,they should provide security for all parties during political rallies.

Gambians should reject any arrangement that merely seeks to change personalities but keep the system. We need a regime change,no doubt,but what we need most,is a system change.

Once again,I wish the Peters family 'A very Merry XMas.

Thank you.
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+6 #4 2010-12-13 12:06
A truly memorable Christmas present and one we all appreciate.

THe dignity of Femi Senior is greatly admired through this ordeal.

I am delighted for young Femi and the family.

Where do I send my Christmas card?
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+3 #3 2010-12-13 01:56
There can be two ways to get rid of Jammeh. One is by voting and the other is by force. And it seems to me the latter is more and more likely to happen hence the opposition leaders are mared in all kinds of fights. One would think that educated as they are, they will know more than anyone that, that is exactly what the "knockle head" Jammeh wants. Division in the opposing team, only helps him to get a tighter grip on power. I would care less if one thinks I am rambling. What I would like everyone to know is this Jammeh Madness cannot go on forever.
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+3 #2 2010-12-13 01:52
I am happy for you on your Dad's release, and I hope that everyone else is released sooner than later. Having said that, I hope Gambians in all corners of the world will put their differences aside, and fight for a change. I have been following blogs and comments for a little while now. And all through that time, I sometimes vowed to not visit the site again, due to the petty fights between the very people who are calling for change in Gambia. There will be no meaningful change without a unified front. One's spelling error or wrong grammar fades compared to what we all face, and that is a tyrant ruler, known as Yahya Jammeh. What most of us will agree about is that we badly need a leader who has respect for human rights and justice for all irrespective of their socioeconomic background.The best thing would be for us all to wake up, and "keep our eyes on the ball." We will defeat Yahya Jammeh one way or the other if we keep together
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+2 #1 2010-12-13 01:49
Therefore, although you got your Christmas wish on your Dad's release, I hope you will stay in the fight to help other people's family member lanquising in jail released too. Life without freedom, is worse than death itself. I wish you read this comment for it will be a while before I post again. I am almost sure that as soon as my comments are published, the people that masquerade as Jammeh opposers will pounce and try to derail the topic. But, I do not have time for that and will stay quiet till the time comes to strike."Jambarr dawut daffa outti dulleh." Stealth can keep one alive to fight an other day...........
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